Port Stephens Teen Shares Story of Survival and Hope in New Memoir

At just 17 years old, Brodie Oxlade from Port Stephens, NSW, is already making a big impact. Her newly released memoir, My Life as the Drug Addict’s Daughter, offers a raw and unfiltered look at her childhood, marred by abuse and neglect. Despite facing trauma that no child should ever experience, Brodie’s story is one of resilience, healing, and the determination to make a difference in the lives of others.

Brodie’s experiences as a young girl were marked by instability, fear, and uncertainty. While she struggled to verbally share the weight of her trauma, a suggestion from her step-mother, April Oxley, led to a significant breakthrough. Instead of speaking, Brodie began journaling her memories. What started as a private outlet to process the chaos eventually grew into the powerful narrative found in her memoir.

“Writing became my way of making sense of everything,” Brodie explained. “Turning my memories into a story gave me control over my past and helped me realise that sharing my truth could make a difference.”

April Oxley, who Brodie lovingly calls her true Mum, has been a pillar of strength throughout this journey. April’s tireless dedication to helping Brodie heal is a testament to the power of unconditional love. Together, they fought through many hurdles to reach a place of safety and hope.

“April’s support has meant the world to me,” Brodie said. “We’ve come so far, and I know we’ll keep pushing forward together.”

Community support has played an equally vital role in Brodie’s journey. A meeting with the Wellness Centre Port Stephens has led to an important collaboration. Emma McMillan and her team at the Centre, who are passionate about mental health advocacy, will host Brodie’s official book launch on 29 November 2024. This event will provide a safe, welcoming space for readers and supporters to connect, celebrate Brodie’s achievements, and discuss the importance of breaking the cycle of trauma.

The significance of sharing these stories cannot be overstated. Brodie’s memoir isn’t just a recount of the past but a guidepost for those struggling with abuse and neglect. It’s a call to action for society to listen, support, and create safe spaces where survivors can heal.

Brodie is already contemplating her next writing project, hoping to explore new themes and genres. “I think a coming-of-age story or maybe even a romance,” she mused. “Writing fiction could be a new way to express my creativity and continue inspiring others.”

Brodie’s bravery and perseverance remind us that even in the darkest times, hope and healing are possible. Her voice, powerful and authentic, is a shining example of how young people can transform their pain into a force for change.